Fight Smarter: Avoid the Most Common Argument Patterns - Esther Perel

“Once in awhile I am late and my boyfriend takes it so personally. I can understand why he gets upset but he blows it way out of proportion and triggers our biggest fights. How can I convince him it’s not about him?" - Paul, Fort Collins, Colorado No relationship is free of conflict. Listen to my advice on ways to resolve the most common argument patterns and learn how to fight better